Intimacy in the bedroom is often about exploring and enhancing the sensual connection between partners. Among the myriad ways to add excitement and pleasure to your romantic moments, chocolate play is an indulgent and playful option. Combining the allure of rich, decadent chocolate with the intimate act of lovemaking can transform a regular night into an unforgettable experience. Experts at Condoms.UK share how to sweeten your bedroom adventures with chocolate play.

The sensual appeal of chocolate

Chocolate has long been associated with romance and indulgence. Its smooth texture, enticing aroma, and rich flavour make it a favourite in both culinary and romantic contexts. Scientifically, chocolate contains compounds like phenylethylamine and serotonin, which can elevate mood and create a feeling of euphoria, making it an excellent addition to intimate moments.

Preparation: setting the stage

Before diving into chocolate play, setting the right atmosphere is crucial. Here’s how to prepare:

• Choose the right chocolate: Opt for high-quality chocolate that melts easily at body temperature. Dark chocolate is often preferred for its lower sugar content and higher cocoa concentration, which is less sticky and easier to clean up.

• Ambiance: Dim the lights, light some scented candles, and play soft, romantic music to create a relaxing and intimate environment.

• Protection for your sheets: Chocolate can get messy. Protect your bedding with a special throw or old sheets that you don’t mind getting dirty.

• Body temperature: Warm the chocolate to a comfortable temperature before using it. You can melt it in a bowl over hot water or use a microwave, but make sure it’s not too hot to avoid burns.

The art of chocolate play

Once the stage is set, it’s time to explore the sensual delights of chocolate play. Here are some ideas to get you started:

• Body painting: Use melted chocolate to paint designs or write love messages on each other’s bodies. This tactile activity can be incredibly intimate and playful. Use a pastry brush or simply your fingers to apply the chocolate.

• Chocolate massage: Replace your usual massage oil with warm chocolate. The smooth, viscous texture of melted chocolate can make for a luxurious massage experience. Start with the back and shoulders, and work your way to other parts of the body, allowing the warmth and aroma of the chocolate to enhance the experience.

• Feeding and tasting: Hand-feed each other pieces of chocolate or drizzle melted chocolate over your partner’s lips and body, savouring the moment as you lick it off. This act of feeding and tasting can heighten the sensual connection and bring a sense of playfulness to your intimate time.

• Blindfolded sensations: Heighten the sensory experience by blindfolding your partner. The absence of sight can make the touch, taste, and smell of chocolate even more intense. Guide your partner’s hands and mouth to different parts of your body covered in chocolate, creating a tantalising journey of discovery.

Aftercare and clean-up

Chocolate play is deliciously messy, so aftercare is essential. Here are some tips:

• Warm towels: Keep a few warm, damp towels nearby to wipe off excess chocolate from your skin.

• Shower together gently: Extend the intimate experience by sharing a warm shower or bath afterward, washing away the remnants of chocolate, and savouring the closeness.

• Hydration and rest: Chocolate can be quite stimulating, so make sure to hydrate and take some time to rest and cuddle after your play session, allowing both partners to relax and enjoy the afterglow.

Sex and Relationship Educator for Condoms.UK, Kelley Nele, commented:

“Chocolate is a great way to spice things up in the bedroom. Many know that chocolate is an aphrodisiac but they may not know exactly how it directly affects sex.”

There are plenty of pros to incorporating chocolate into your play such as;

1. Improving your mood by releasing feel-good hormones such as dopamine

2. Enhancing your stamina

3. Reducing your stress

“The best part is that you can use almost any kind of chocolate; syrup or boxed chocolate. Just be sure that no one’s allergic.“

“You can do anything from feeding each other strawberries dipped in chocolate like in the movies to applying chocolate syrup to parts of the body (avoid the genitals) and licking it off.“

“Make sure to cover the sheets before play and to take a nice hot bath/shower post-play. Bonus points if you take a bath together and further the bonding experience.“

“If you’d like to avoid the mess, it’s probably best to use chocolate-flavoured condoms as an alternative.“

“Avoid using melted chocolate that’s too hot, especially near wounds.”

Incorporating chocolate into your intimate moments can add a new layer of excitement and connection with your partner. The sensory pleasure of chocolate, combined with touch and taste, can create an indulgent and playful experience that both of you will remember. So, next time you want to spice things up in the bedroom, consider a sweet seduction with chocolate play. It’s a delicious way to explore each other’s bodies and enhance your romantic bond.

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Kelley Nele is a Relationship and Sex educator with a background in psychology (University of South Africa) and sexology (South African College of Applied Psychology). She has been edifying people on foundational and advanced topics relating to dating, relationships, sex and sexuality via coaching for 5 years and through her writing for 2 years.