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A New Couple's Guide To Planning A Romantic Honeymoon

A honeymoon is perhaps the most memorable trip you enjoy as a couple, so it deserves to be the best. When you think of a honeymoon, you picture endless sessions in bed, passionate feelings, crazy nights, and kinky conversations. But most couples end up missing out on these expectations because they do not plan well. Imagine spending most of the time feeling sleepy or lethargic because you do not have enough energy after the wedding festivities. The best way to avoid such situations is by planning well for a romantic honeymoon. Here is a new couple's guide to help.

Time it right

You need not fly for your honeymoon right after your reception. The wedding days are exhausting as you switch between last-minute shopping, preparations, late-night parties, and spending time with relatives. You will probably need a week to get over the fatigue and regain your energy levels. Wait until you are physically ready to be your passionate best in bed, and time your trip accordingly.

Take off the pressure

Besides fatigue, performance pressure is another factor that can affect your honeymoon passion. Likewise, you may feel body-conscious with your new spouse. You need not stress yourself with high expectations. At the same time, avoid expecting a lot from your partner. Go slow and let the romance build on its pace. You must focus on having a good time together, even if it is only about indulging in a cozy conversation instead of getting into the act.

Be experimental

Honeymoon is a great time to experiment in bed, even if you have been together for years. Think outside the box, and surprise each other in the most unexpected ways. You can try role play, follow an X-rated video, or even pack a surprise gift for your partner. A real whizzinator XXX gets you wet and wild in bed. Shed your inhibitions and make the most of the trip by doing unimaginable things with your partner.

Avoid overdoing activities

Skip an adventure tour and opt for a more relaxing trip for your honeymoon. The thought of bungee jumping, skydiving, and hiking with your spouse sounds exciting. But these activities may leave you exhausted at the end of the day. You will probably sleep like babies after spending your energy on adventurous activities. Choose a more stay-in kind of holiday where you can explore each other rather than your destination. Even if you wish to step out, stick with easygoing activities like a walk or a swim at the beach.

Talk about fantasies

You can make your honeymoon extra special by discussing your fantasies and trying them together. It is the best time to indulge in physical intimacy as you will probably have other things to handle when the trip is over. Build a comfort level to have open conversations, but respect your partner's choice if they do not wish to try a crazy act. Let things happen naturally and effortlessly.

A romantic honeymoon is a dream for all new couples, but you need to do your bit to make the most out of the experience. Try these tips, follow your instincts, and don't shy away from showing your passion.

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Liam Jones is a  professional content writer. He specializes in personal care and relationship guidelines. Liam works as the head of the content department at Submitcore. He uses his experiences and education to enlighten his audience through the use of easily understandable language.

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